Picture the bonding like two pieces of tape face to face. Each time you give yourself physically or emotionally to another you stick to them. That is the bonding process that God created for marriage. When you become intimate, emotionally or physically, you form a bond with that person.
But, when the relationship ends, the tape is pulled apart and the bond ripped away. Most of the time it hurts very deeply. With each relationship you stick, unstick, stick again and when you finally come to the time when you do marry, the ability to stick or bond becomes much less, if not at all.
Oh crap I’m screwed.
